Nervous! I am coloring my hair, and I always have a mini panic attack as I'm waiting for it to set because I'm freaking out about potentially being allergic to it (yes, I did the sensitivity test). I have a new type of dye this time, a henna color. Fingers crossed that it turns out well.
Ironically, the current source of drama is angry with me because I supposedly "don't listen". Even though like 75% of our friendship was me listening to her and me accommodating her. So you may be right.
"don't listen" = "you're not telling meEXACTLY what I WANT to hear."
Originally Posted by EJCC
I'm wondering if the real issue is that there were times when I "didn't listen" when she expected me to, and when she would have listened if she were in my position. (There's a big superiority complex component to her anger towards me.)
You are right to wonder. That is quite similar to what I told you about another member I know. We started as friends but it got to the point where I was just expected to be there for "member" at any time. However if I ever needed to talk, I had to wait until "member" was done watering the plants, watching a movie, or any other excuse that could be thought of. I cut ties and am happier for it. Unfortunately that happens. Its life. Friends will come, and friends will go. What you have to do is figure out which ones are friends and which ones are users. It isn't easy to distinguish. Sadly, its just something you have to find out on your own.