I guess when I think of someone incapable of loving, it transcends WHO they would love. It is that they have a stumbling block within themselves they have to work through to release the love inside them that cannot properly come out and be bestowed upon a partner.
Not ready to fully move on to me means the person is capable of having a full-fledged relationship, but just needs to go slowly with the new person so that neither gets hurt from moving too quickly.
Of course, you can go slowly in either case, but the origin to me is different.
Ah, I see... makes more sense when you put it that way.
Only she who attempts the absurd can achieve the impossible... and then some.
I'm terrified at the thought of failure, so I'm sitting like a bump on a log and being Joe Cool, not participating in anything, and feeling like a complete ninny on the inside. LAME! Ahh, well, tomorrow is another day! Perhaps I will remember this and do better then.