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    I really appreciate everyone's inputs. Thanks all!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arclight View Post
    Yeah, that is rough .. I have been there and I feel your pain.

    INFJ's are a paradox... what they want is what they fear.

    When fear controls they seem to build a safety script that everything has to follow. If something doesn't follow, it becomes part of the problem.

    I am still working through this kind of stuff myself..
    I am sure you feel manipulated. But there is more to this than meets the eye.

    My therapist says Intelligence and Intuition will build the most mighty defenses that even the programmer can't get around.

    INFJs therefore could be argued to have some of the mightiest defenses going.

    Don't blame yourself, at least not entirely.

    Good luck and if you need any help, just ping me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by copperfish17 View Post
    I really appreciate everyone's inputs. Thanks all!



    Just for you, Sparrow, because you're super awesome.



    Here you go. Please be gentle with it.
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    I'm jumping in way late, but I wanted to add my 2 cents.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sky is BLUE! View Post
    Be honest, show yourself as you really are, don't break the trust, stick around but don't try to smother and don't try too hard.
    Once you break the trust, it's all over, at least for me. Seriously, you get one shot, and once you screw it up, no more ENFJ for you! Once I feel like I can't trust someone, or if they've crapped on me one-too-many-times, they get moved to a circle of people who I will be polite to but won't let close to me.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lux View Post
    When you share your thoughts and feelings on things with me, important and non-important alike. Especially in regards to questions I have asked.

    Tell me who you are. Tell me things important to you, whatever they may be.

    When you show that you want to know me. When you accept who I am in entirety. When you challenge me and don't blindly agree, but be polite about disagreement, I don't like unkindness... Sarcasm is all right; in fact it is very welcome. I love anything that makes me laugh.

    I enjoy when I can sense others are genuinely interested in my thoughts and feelings.
    This is all good. I truncated it, but I kept most of the good points.

    Be genuine. I can always tell when someone is not being genuine when they talk/compliment me, and it kind of pisses me off. Then again, I don't see how an INTP can not be genuine.

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    If it's not romantic, why do you care? I'm lost.
    AHAHAHAHAHAHA!

    Quote Originally Posted by DJAchtundvierzig View Post
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    20 Steps for the proper care and feeding of INFJs, which apply to ENFJs as well.

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    All of this. ENFJ's love hugs, and giggles, and cuddles.

    One thing I have noticed in my romantic relationships with INTPs is that they don't seem to need/require a lot of contact. So a week goes by (an eternity to an ENFJ), and I'm left wondering how I stand in the relationship. I *know* that everything is OK, but I do feel insecure in not having some sort of "check up", if that makes any sense. This could just be me though. But I think a surprise text/phone call/e-mail would really let your ENFJ know you care.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arclight View Post
    OK so now INFJs have the monopoly on love as well.??

    And, do you call a 20 point bulletin, "love"? .. Sounds very conditional for someone who seems to be trying to convince someone that their love is unconditional.

    Point 20, is the most arrogant and rude thing I have seen typed on here in ages.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJAchtundvierzig View Post
    Here are my tips for the Proper Care of Your INFJ if you are in a romantic relationship with us.
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    I didn't type this, I just thought it was interesting. I found it at:

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJAchtundvierzig View Post
    I didn't type this, I just thought it was interesting. I found it at:

    The Zombie Watch
    You still posted it. I don't want to personally attack you.. but can't you see how irresponsible that number 20 really is? How degrading it is to both INFJs and non INFJs alike???

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    I think it's maybe a little silly. Why do you think it's degrading and irresponsible? I doubt there was any intention to offend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arclight View Post
    You still posted it. I don't want to personally attack you.. but can't you see how irresponsible that number 20 really is? How degrading it is to both INFJs and non INFJs alike???
    I thought #20 suggested having an unrealistic view of relationships. Living in a constant state of idealistic fantasy. In love with being in love- a drug.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiltyred View Post
    I think it's maybe a little silly. Why do you think it's degrading and irresponsible? I doubt there was any intention to offend.
    Quote Originally Posted by Jaguar View Post
    I thought #20 suggested having an unrealistic view of relationships. Living in a constant state of idealistic fantasy. In love with being in love- a drug.
    I can't spin it guys... I have tried.. It says what it says.. INFJs have the monopoly on the love. No one can love better than an INFJ.

    It is irresponsible and insulting to both INFJs and other types and stinks of arrogance for the person who wrote and to anyone who agrees with it.

    I think I have explained myself.. Why doesn't someone explain to me why my perception might be flawed instead?

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