ENFJs, hypothetical situation for you:
Let's say you meet someone and you become friends, but you also feel very sure this person is a great match for you romantically, ideal even, and so you develop a crush, become infatuated, whatever. You use your usual charm and bag of tricks on this person, but he/she only responds as a friend and so no romance occurs. You realize they probably will never feel more than friendly for you....but to what degree will you accept it, and how long will it take you to get over them?
Do you move on from this person quickly, or keep pining and even secretly hoping?
What would it take for you to move on?
Would the friendship with that person have to be severed, or lessened, or could you remain friends & still move on?
Will you come to resent that person?
Will you compare every subsequent romantic potential to that person?
Is it typical for you to get stuck on someone you feel "sure" of, or do you move onto a new person quickly once you determine it's not going to happen?
Thanks for indulging me.