oh, this was funny-it might explain my dating life:
A quote from “The Scientist” this month in an article about personality diffs in fish:
“But having a personality is actually a stupid thing to do. Consider a species of spider in which particularly aggressive females have a leg up in fighting off predators and competing for food. That aggression, though, spills into another context-those females may not be able to hold back from cannibalizing a potential mate cutting off their chance to reproduce. This is clearly not optimal behavior.”
But he was so delicious.....