Well, I wasn't sure if I was going to make this kind of thread.. but heeere we go.
I'm a girl in my late 20s, been in love many times.. but now I find myself in flames again after many years with a INFx. I am definatly sure he's a INFx- though for some reason he tested ISFP. Some words to describe him: Extremely intuitive and accurate, idealistic, passionate, has some dark sides.
He rather seems outgoing, but I could tell he was an introvert still.
He's been showing some seemingly ok-clear-enough signs of interest in me as well over the past 3 months (!! long time!), but due to few meetings (Busy -__-) and what not, it has not gotten anywhere yet. No dates, no nothing. Just implications of that we might like eachother (we're not youngsters either. Late twenties!)
So I don't know, would an INFx guy go right out and ask you out? Or would they be more reserved?
I'm trying to make sense why he can in one way be very flirtatious towards me, and take contact to chat and talk ALOT about things he's currently feel strongly about and tell me to read this and that , and talk about me to mutual friends. But no asking if we should just HANG OUT FFS! >_< lol
An example of how he flirts is, he was going to lend me a book.. last time we meet, he said "I forgot the book.. but we both agree its good i forgot the book.. then we got an excuse to meet again " , and later on moved from his seat to jump in with my coach to lean towards me.
I fell for the "shows a lot of interest" but doesn't ask you out trick before, and like many others have read "The rules" and seen "hes just not that into you", and don't want to go overboard reading too much into anything as long as he has not taken things a step further.
So a little help to understand an either INFP or INFJ here.. would be of great help :P ( I suspect INFP might be his actual type.. but he just seems like a Ni user.. possibly an INFJ who adapted more INFP traits.. he has a certain INFjish feel to him)