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    Default ENFP changes her clothing and hair right in front of me.

    Alright, I was helping out this ENFP to do some task at my work then all of a sudden she changes her hair style from a pony tail to two pigtails. Another instance she took off her sweater and put around a scarf around her neck while I was talking to her. What's up with that?

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    Perhaps her shoulders were cold and she fancied a change of hair style?

    The ENFP I know does similar kind of random stuff. Well it appears random, often he has a good excuse or just didn't realise he was doing it (or just didn't think ahead). It's one of the things that makes ENFPs fascinating.
    Isn't it time for a colourful metaphor?

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    You're asking because you're kinda hoping she's flirting with you right? She may be, consciously or unconsciously, some girls tend to suddenly become more aware of their apparance around someone they're attracted to.

    Or it could be completely random and there's no use in reading too much into it

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    I know an ENFP female I can easily imagine doing either without being attracted to the guy in question.

    I think a better sign of attraction to look for is if she is generally more subdued around you than she is around others.

    ... This is of course assuming that Forfe has interpreted your motivation for the thread correctly.

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    I always though with ENFPs the test was whether they continued to focus on you even when lots of people are around?
    Isn't it time for a colourful metaphor?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xander View Post
    I always though with ENFPs the test was whether they continued to focus on you even when lots of people are around?
    Hmm. ENFP female members, over here!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Economica View Post
    I think a better sign of attraction to look for is if she is generally more subdued around you than she is around others.
    This has always been my experience.
    "You will always be fond of me. I represent to you all the sins you never had the courage to commit."

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    than to serve and obey them. - David Hume

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    Quote Originally Posted by Metamorphosis View Post
    This has always been my experience.
    Agreed, normally when they consider you part of the 'scenery', you aren't being flirted with.

    The general rule of attraction - if they act differently around you, then they are interested!

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    OMG she took her sweater off!!!!! She so wants you man!!!!!

    Wake up, it's just a sweater
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    Quote Originally Posted by ptgatsby View Post
    Agreed, normally when they consider you part of the 'scenery', you aren't being flirted with.

    The general rule of attraction - if they act differently around you, then they are interested!
    Exactly.

    I meant to elevate it to the general case like this. Of course, ISTP > ISTJ on the N.

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