I think because I have yet to meet an ENFP that is negative and a complete debbie downer to be around.
We always just want to enjoy life. I think we help people loosen up.
Then we can switch and completely go into deep, calm mode. My INTJ roommate was having a really antisocial day yesterday and just felt weird so I canceled all my plans and we stayed up till about 3am just talking without going out anywhere.
I think we enjoy being there for people and giving them whatever they need.
where were you enfp likin' intps my whole life??? :confused: i don't know if i've ever had an intp friend or dated one . . . man have i missed out! i'm glad you like us - that makes me feel really good cuz i always focus on how everybody seems to luv infjs & entps the most ie. finds them the most fascinating / mesmerizing / interesting / unattainable & enfps are everywhere you turn, accepting you, loving you, doting on you, worshipping you . . . like an annoying puppy that keeps walking under your feet & you practically trip over every second & at first it's cute but after a while you just want to kick the damn thing away so you can actually walk . . . so thank you very very much you awesome intps . . . (actually my mom is an intp & i always thinks she hates me)
^^ :stunned: Wow, that is a *lot* coming from Nomadic. Kekekeke.
But you know on a more serious note I think a lot of it has to do with the mental/intellectual connection.
Also, there is a lot of diversity within the ENFP type or INFP type sooooo
not to derail . . .but your "diversity within enfp / infp type" interested me . . . do you think this is more so for the nfps because we have a "fluidity" to our beingness? could you expand? (if you feel like it of course ) just wanted your input / opinion / feelings/ observations . . . hhmmm