I am working on a few new theories about parenting styles, people who are x's ( as in like xnfx) etc.
I have quite a lot to say on the subject, but more than that I desire to know the inner workings of family on your lives and quirks.
As much in detail as you can would be most welcome! I'm terribly interested.
As for Me, My mother is and ISTP my father is an ESTP. As for me I am an ENFP and my brother who is close to me is one messed up INFJ. It took me forever to type him because he's so screwed up.
Basically, my dad is a narcissist (but a good heart) who projected his image onto my poor brother who only ever wanted to be good, but was caught up in this sort of moral dilemma. You know I've heard that INFJ's take constant criticism the hardest, because deep down they are so incredibly in tune with other's feelings that they cannot stand to disappoint nor betray a person's feelings. so I think it was hard for my brother to live in such a controlling critical environment where he was basically set up to fail to be like my dad.
It's funnily the same kind of thing for me and my mom. I am her 'hardest' child. Always pushing boundaries and crossing lines. I'm considered the bad kid in my family, even though I've only ever done everything they asked of me. -no sex drugs or rock and roll.... well maybe a little rock and roll. Anyway,b tu my anomally with a strong suit in tactics came from a high amount of practice in the area.... Hmmm I should start another thread. about that.
Please! I am all ears and can't wait to hear about you guys!