She said the trick was in the data... For him the data was the concrete Se result. She would identify patterns, do a bit of pre-work to identify the Ne pattern (ie generate data when he wasnt looking), then sit and draw the lines connecting the concrete data to places where she saw the Ne patterns. This could take some back and forth-but he could not deny the concrete results in front of him, thus it legitimized the Ne perception.
This worked for data-
Te/Ti sharing to build trust in the
Se/Ne interfaces.
Wow, you must not play much, or not know how to play, and you definitely don't know how much fun it is and can be to play with someone who is compatible with you, (in the dominant intuitive sense) yet different, this, actually, makes the playing that much more intense, challenging and exciting!!!
Once again, too much theorizing here, Kalach, and way too little experience.
How do you translate and build Se/Ne trust across an Fi connection? AO mentioned ENFPs/INTJs seem a little unstable maybe...How can you trust Fi, the delicate INTJ variety, to something as fluttery as an ENFP? The ENFP is in the past-future and spends fleeting moments in the present.
Sapienne said it earlier and I didnt catch the significance. Fi is highly kinesthetic and tactile. Sapienne talked about how important the physical touching plays in her relationship. I would suggest that might be very important in building the Ne/Se trust over the permenance of Fi.
Yeah, I know, right, this intuitive connection making, picturing of a possible world, it's all just playing with air, isn't it. It's only real if you get the actual experience, in detail, from many angles, making up a library of experiences to draw understanding from, yeah. That's how you learn what's possible. You can't really know anything until you get the experience, amirite buddies?!
Yup! See you did understand.
My mind flutters endlessly across all boundaries, imagines all possibilities, but my lips, my hands, my body, my kisses, caresses, all lay here in the present with the person I am with. Every touch, every caress, every kiss, builds into a historical ruleset that exemplifies and amplifies the initial Fi connection. Sound right Sapienne? This may be why we enfps seem kinda easy, yet in reality a one night stand can feel like being discarded. Part of sharing Fi was in sharing that physical part of ourselves. I'd suggest this directly links to our partner's need for the actual physical Se concrete reality.
K, walk out the door, go to the beach, walk past the ESFPs playing volleyball. Walk to the edge of the beach and find the chick with a book. The sweet one who smiles and then breaks eye contact with you after a few seconds. You should be good to go. You'll need to kiss her though. Or at least hold her hand.
I am going to go have a beer now. Wait its 7 am. I am going to dump some vodka in my coffee. You guys make me emo.