OMG it does...it does begin to look like blah, blah, blah...it's the part of academia that annoys me to no end, even in texts I've studied, because it strikes me as pretentious.Ti is another language-no shit. Te cant follow down Ti's path for more than a few steps, then it starts to get filled in with "blah, blah, blah". I read my entps emails to her aloud and fill them in with spoken blah, blah, blahs. She almost killed me.
Ewww, yeah, no. That's not going to happen.The next time you and OMT start a lovemaking session, after each post take about an hour to think over what he wrote-you have to translate his i into your Te, which is hard without getting pissed.
I don't have to ask. I already have an ENFJ sister who is more than happy to describe what personality traits I have which bug her:Try this-ask your Fe users to be totally honest and give you critique about things that they find irritating. When Proteo will do this here, I learn amazing stuff that I never would have thought to question. "Really, I do that? Really, it's irritating?"
1) Selective about who I love. "You seem to think that only certain people - or a certain kind of people - are worthy of your reverence. It's not that you're rude to other people, but it's pretty clear who you prefer."
2) Dramatic emotional outbursts if I'm severely depressed or angry. "Do you have to do this here? Now?"...but let me just say I was in my mother's home, at midnight, in my nightgown, when she decided to bring her friend over. So it was less about me being "inappropriate" and all about her wanting be able to bring her friend ...to her mother's house...at midnight...without warning anyone first...and impress the friend with our family's exquisite manners? This is a big part of the reason why her lectures tend to fall on deaf ears much of the time.
3) Just generally telling me how to "behave myself" in situations. "Why do you take things so personally? Our other sister does it too!" (who is also an ENFP! lol) I will say, in my ENFJ sister's favor, that she has helped me tremendously in dealing with my mom.
I think INFJs are awesome.It's hard to do this with ENTPs as it is such a visceral response from them, and it can be really hard to identify specific things to change, but ENFJs are awesome.
P.S. nothing you said sounded bossy to me