This soundboard is still intimacy and I enjoy it as long as I dont have to dive into Ni to much. As I learn someone then it becomes more back and forth without leaving this intimacy state.
Its probably confusing because my Fi for a person is not gone, its just not always conscious. Only certain emotions are conscious at a time. If you are in a state where we are acting like friends, thats where my emotions move to, when things become intimate, my emotions follow. I tend to follow people emotionally, but those emotions actually have to exist within myself. If you hit intimate without it existing in me then I feel awkward and is somewhere that still needs to be built up.