Fe seems to try to convince you of something which instead of reacting like Fi/Te does and say "are you trying to convince me of something" I instead fight because of the way its done. My INTJ dad picks this up and responds in a better fashion then I do. With me, if you want something, tell me dont try to convince me. More likely then not I will give in to what you want. I wont change my want, but will allow you to have yours.