I can do something similar, but Fi doesn't allow me to be particularly disingenuous. If I say something voluntarily, I mean it. If I ask a seemingly generic question, it's still a genuine question and something I'm curious about. It's just that my motivations for asking it may be more complicated than you think.While I understand that this type of behavior is motivated by good intentions, it strikes me as a bit patronizing. How can I know whether her actions towards me are genuine and not part of some behind-the-scenes plan to make me feel better or to protect me from emotional harm?