I was in a relationship with an ISFJ for three years and we planned to get married, we had the baby names picked out and all. He was a good partner overall, but I always felt like something was missing. Turns out that thing was N. Call me an idealist (), but I like my relationships to have a touch of the extraordinary. I get no joy from the daily grind and keeping up with the status quo, like my ISFJ did. The mundane is not my territory.