I come here in peace. I mean no harm. I do not want to be taken to your leader, I am here to humbly ask for your input. And there is no mothership...
To the point:
I am an INTJ who has met an INFP. I am single but she is not.
We have amazing conversations and are in agreement about all the important things, i.e. politics, religion, world views, etc. We talk about very personal things. We look forward to talking to each other.
She is a writer and the main character in her book was giving her some problems. She asked me if she could incorperate some of me and my life into him. She also told me that few people "allow" her to just talk, think on her feet type free flow talking without censoring herself.
She is currently out of the country, but before she left , she hugged me twice. The first time was after I gave her a small gift that was a token of something we are both into. It was just a short hug, nothing big. The second was after we had been talking for a bit, rather excitedly, and then two family members walked in. We both reacted like teenagers. Guilty looks, stop talking, jump up from sitting positions, the whole nine yards. That is when she hugged me, a bit differently this time. She put her head on my shoulder, for just a brief second. That was the last time I saw her before she left.
We e-mailed off and on (computer issues on her side) but when she is in an area that allows for computer use, our e-mails have gotten longer and more in depth. She tells me she misses our "long, awesome" conversations.
What I am trying to get to is this: Is it just me, or is this woman attracted to me as more then a friend? I really do not know.....Am I seeing something that is not there or not seeing the obvious?