From what I have read of the ENFJ profile it said we can have dark thoughts when we are all alone. At first I was like I can totally relate to this. It is kind of weird because I would rather never have any dark thoughts.
For me, I love people in general. I want to learn all about them, be a part of them, help them, and just all of that awesome stuff. I often think of ways on how to make our world a better place. What makes it hard is I often come to a conclusion of "If everybody did things this way, things would be better" attitude. Also, thinking about stuff at a global level can make one realize how unfair the world can be (good people not getting their share).
What happens is those realities and expectations come pouring in at me. This cause me to hate people in general. Rather on a larger scale or a smaller personal level, the drive to help combined with the harsh reality can be really hard.
The worst part is realizing that I can be part of the problem sometimes.
Today, ridding myself of those dark thoughts is something I have actually done pretty well. I still have them every now and them, as everybody has their moments, but it isn't a reoccurring theme in my life like it use to.
I think a lot of my problem is being hyper sensitive and going overboard with the Ni and assuming too many things. These issues I have both addressed and taken time to work on.
Being an ENFJ Se is my relief function. In my case, it helps me realize I'm making things too hard on my self. No expectations, no motivations, no worries. Doing things I enjoy doing for fun, here and now, also helps takes things off my mind. Se is a function I truly want to make a larger impact in my life.
Don't worry Ni, I still love you, and looking at things at all of the angles is what really energies me. Sometimes though, I can get a little overcharge.
Sometimes I feel alone in this world and was wondering if anybody in here could relate.