of course, i'm in the ENFJ in this relationship. the ISFP has been my best friend, and i've been in love with him since day 1. we were inseperable last year, but i never managed to get extremely close to his heart because of the nervousness that came with liking him.
i told him i liked him, and he "thought" about it, and then told me he didn't want to deal with the emotions that come with a relationship - not neccesarily that he didn't like me. the problem with this is, afterwards i expanded a bit more on my feelings and he stayed completely mute and didn't know what to say. following that, he's gone out of his way to ignore me. now, i realize i need to get closer with him, but hes doing essentially everything he can to ignore me and not show that he actually cares about me.
i'm in love with the kid, and i need advice - i don't know how to deal with this.
i want to win his heart and i want my best friend back!