I have read allusions in certain posts to manipulation performed by INFJs.
I don't like manipulation. My ESTJ mother is good at it when she wants something and I don't want to be manipulative myself. One of my church friends was telling me about how manipulative she was as a child (she's a TJ of some kind) and I asked her to explain and describe it. I couldn't relate.
How would you describe INFJ manipulation with concrete examples so I can detect it and stop doing it if I am? Because if I do, it's not intentional.