What are signs that an INFJ is offering alternatives or starting negotiations? At times, it looked like some INFJs were restricting the conversation to their terms and refusing to move forward from there. It's good to see I may have misunderstood. I'd like to be able to identify what's negotiable and non-negotiable because it's not so obvious to me. Also, what happens to INFJs when they join a conversation like this one without being able to reference everyone's feelings and agendas? I'm curious what the downside is and how it looks internally.
I forgot to ask: do other INFJs relate to the quoted section above?
This is a strange thing to be concerned about. Even if your hunch were true, I don't see anything wrong with people dropping in to support or agree with another poster. I doubt anything sinister is going on.