Okay, we can call it an epiphany. That works for me. And, yes, I'm enthusiastic about what I learned, and I can see how that enthusiasm can look like pushiness. And I broke my own rule of not generalizing to all INFJs several times
, for which I apologize. I'll keep my posts to my own experiences and stop generalizing from now on. But, if I'm pushing for others to follow me, it seems that some of them have had no qualms about pushing back. So, I'm not sure that there's a problem here. Is pushing for a different kind of discussion against forum rules? No one is being forced to read my posts, and perhaps there are people who are interested in what I have to say, the way I'm saying it. I would hope that I'm not being told that my pov is no longer welcome just because it's changed or makes some people uncomfortable.