to narrow it down (beyond the attempt people tried extending it too):
no, nobody is telling anyone not run away in a state of physical abuse, nobody is telling anyone to never end a relationship or break up with anyone, nobody is telling anyone to never take some time off for themselves, nobody is telling anyone to never physically slam doors, nobody is telling you to not listen to Back Door Slam.
to extend it to (beyond the semantic dodging people here tried to narrow it from):
no it is not only doorslamming when you did or didn't say goodbye or did or didn't go to the bathroom before or the discussion you had the 20 minutes before or what did you wear that night or whether you have the same hair color or whether the door has purple stripes and a yellow nob shaped like an owl.
for the most part the most persistent commonality behind the door slams referenced:
the act of cutting off ties in reactions to perspectives of yourself which conflict with your ego.