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    Default What would an angry INFJ say to you?

    You're lucky I have two feet. If I had to choose between your world and mine, you would never see me again.

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    She will say nothing to you. Absolutely nothing. For years.

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    How badly have you messed up? How far into their inner circle are you? How much lapse time has there been between the incident and them talking to you? Have you ignored important warnings in the past? All of these are pertinent pieces of information.

    Generally INFJs don't enjoy being angry. They do appreciate signs of remorse though and if they do let you have it with both barrels it's because you've ignored all previous warnings given. If pushed very very hard they may doorslam you (usually they are beyond even feeling angry by then though).

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    Whatever she says...

    LISTEN.
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    Halla is married to one. He should know.

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    Whatever she says...
    Who is this "she" you refer to?

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    In my case it's either silence or sobbing combined with screaming.

    So if it gets to that point, and I can promise it builds up for a long time, you need to just apologize because your INFJ gave you a lot of chances before it got that bad. Doesn't matter if their rant makes any sense, just apologize.

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    Something to the degree of, "So this is who you really are?" in order to put them on the defensive and in an attempt to make them reflect on their actions. Usually, I am long gone before that point. As Fidelia stated, as soon as my anger is gone, all of my emotions have completely disconnected for that person and I just move on, wanting nothing to do with that person again.

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    Here's me telling Victor off, which should give you an idea. And just for kicks, here's part 2.

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    Aw Peguy, that's kind of an endearing rant. Wubbie worthy, embarrassingly enough (I hate using emoticons)...

    Even you saying you hate him (more than once) doesn't seem to convey the withering disrespect that an NT might shoot someone's way. In fact both Part I and II were incredibly well-documented and factual. Maybe it's the lack of mud-slinging that doesn't imply venemous hatred.

    How'd you feel when you were writing it? Were you being restrained for the sake of your audience?

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