So I was talking with my entp friend.
She poised a very good question.
I can tell her the negative aspects of the past, how those negatives may play out in the future, and what we need to avoid and improve upon. This could be a work or personal scenario.
Then she asked "What did we do right? What did we improve?" My mouth gaped. I dunno. She said this is the response she always gets when she asks ISTJs/ENFPs this question-the gaping mouth. "Errrrrr......" My mouth is still gaping. I dont remember what got better, what improved.
I do KNOW what not to do next time though.
Is this common to Fi users?
Do you remember what the improvements were or does your mind instead focus instead on the negatives encountered and how to improve them in the future?