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    Quote Originally Posted by nozflubber View Post
    what if somebody asks you about it though? do you still tell a "nice lie" ?

    "Awe, man I kinda liked your other style better!"

    I always get in to fights with my SO about something related to this. Heres how it plays out:

    Him: What do you think about this song I made.
    Me: Its okay so far, except for the vocal sample, I would use something else.
    Him: <--gets all butt hurt and defensive.
    Me: Then dont ask me what I think if you dont want my opinion!!!

    This happens alot with us...he asks for my opinion, then gets mad when I tell him what I think! This has happend over hair too lol.

    Tons of ENFJs arent fake we are genuine, if we say I like something we usually mean it, and we are pretty vocal about things we like. If we dont like something we are honest, but tactful about whatever it is we have to say. Generally its not our style to be super rude and mean about things we dont like...unless a line is crossed, then it can get scary and mean. I sound like a broken record, sorry guys.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sparrow View Post
    "Awe, man I kinda liked your other style better!"

    I always get in to fight with my SO about something related to this. Heres how it plays out:

    Him: What do you think about this song I made.
    Me: Its okay so far, except for the vocal sample, I would use something else.
    Him: <--gets all butt hurt and defensive.
    Me: Then dont ask me what I think if you dont want my opinion!!!

    This happens alot with us...he asks for my opinion, then gets mad when I tell him what I think! This has happend over hair too lol.

    Tons of ENFJs arent fake we are genuine, if we say I like something we usually mean it, and we are pretty vocal about things we like. If we dont like something we are honest, but tactful about whatever it is we have to say. Generally its not our style to be super rude and mean about things we dont like...unless a line is crossed, then it can get scary and mean. I sound like a broken record, sorry guys.
    You sound like a broken record because the same questions keep being asked over and over no matter how many times we answer it.

    I think this is because, these are not the answers people are looking for.
    Again , people don't want the truth.

    I guess until someone says "Fine.. Fe is fake, ENFJs are manipulative and evil and we should be burned at the stake"
    These questions are just going to keep coming.

    No one wants to hear we are genuine.. because that just shows them that their suspicions mean it's them with the problem and the lack of genuine feeling.

    A liar always thinks everyone is lying. A thief thinks everyone is going to steal from him/her sort of thing.

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    Totally! Same thing over and over again.

    RAWR!
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    If someone wants to light burning wood under me, I just ask if they really truly wish to be beaten with flaming logs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Domino View Post
    If someone wants to light burning wood under me, I just ask if they really truly wish to be beaten with flaming logs.
    Poetic and sincere.
    Step into my metaphysical room of mirrors.
    Fear of reality creates myopic morality
    So I guess it means there is trouble until the robins come
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    We're fake because we're afraid you won't like the real us

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    Well of course they won't like the real us! We're devils! And we smell like soup! Soup hatin' jackasses!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Domino View Post
    Well of course they won't like the real us! We're devils! And we smell like soup!
    but i like soup

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    Quote Originally Posted by prplchknz View Post
    but i like soup
    Sympathy for the (Fe) devil! Eat our soup and feel the fires of our wrath! Also, feel free to help yourself to the fresh garlic bread and ice-cold beer. We have plenty.
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    Also Fe is the function most prone to "fakeness" which really just refers to untrue to yourself in order to please others. But I don't think Fe users are being fake at all, it's just that it's being true to themselves to alter their values in accordance with the society they are a part of.

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