Based on my personal experience as an INFJ, I found out that ESFJs, ESFPs, and ENTPs are the least types that I get along with.
Starting with ESFJs, I know an ESFJ girl in my class that despises me.. She always seems to envy me. I tried to be nice to her, but I failed miserably. She only enjoys hanging out with "funny people" and doesn't feel comfortable being around people that do not share with her the same interests. She possess so much masculine qualities to the point that some girls in my class tell her to "calm down".. I assume that because she is always exuberant, she doesn't like to be around worried people.
Moving on to ESFPs, my father is an ESFP himself. As much as he loves me, I ocassionally get angry when he always thinks that he's right and always likes things done "his way". My father can be hot-tempered.. He's very outgoing and is not afraid to express his opinion. He always expects things to be organized, despite his extreme disorganizational skills.. He always seems to put more effort in attempt to satisfy me than my brothers. His extreme independent motives sometimes makes me feel socially awkward when we're out in public.
Last but not least, ENTPs are the hardest people for me to get along with. I've known a male ENTP for about three years. When I was in 8th and 9th grade, I genuinely liked him because he was always friendly towards me. However, this year he was put in my class. As soon as he got to know me better, things went downhill.. He tried to manipulate me so many times. He called me out in class several times for pointless reasons. He would always tell people what's on his mind. He's always complaining about people that he knows.. He does not mind raising his voice on a teacher that he despises (our INFP English teacher). Also, he knows how to push my buttons. After he stirs up the pot, he pretends that nothing happened. I don't remember a day that passed by without seeing him engage himself in an argument. He once asked me if I hated him. I lied to him by telling him that I do not hate him (I don't like hurting other people's feelings).. The only thing that I can't get over with was when he humiliated me in front of my favorite teacer. I counterattacked him by yelling at him analyzing all of the faults of his personality. For me to show any negative emotions in front of my ESTJ teacher, punctured a whole in my heart.
Can any other INFJ relate to this? ESFJs, ESFPs, and ENTPS..., have any of you had any brutal encounter with an INFJ? I would like to hear a myraid of opinions. All types are welcomed to post on this topic and express their opinions..
If there is anything above that is unclear, please let me know.
Thank you in advance!