I was just thinking about all the new and wonderful things I learn about types and thereby myself, from this forum. And I was getting bothered by some things I was seeing about NFs but specifically ENFPs. Basically, other people's impressions of us and our own self-assessments. Some things just aren't meshing for me and/or they are quite eye opening as I was not aware of these views before.
So I think I'll be posting some nosy little questions to my fellow NFs in the coming week.
First off --
Are you a sucker?
Do you get easily taken advantage of?
Are you a con artist's dream?
Do you easily fall for every sob story and tall tale you hear?
Are you a total push-over?
Do you attract needy or troubled people who leech you of energy and time and possibly money?
Is it very easy (compared to others you know) to get an emotional response or 'buy-in' from you?
And if the answer is 'Yes!' I was curious as to your feelings on the topic and how you deal with it. If it's 'No!' I would really like to know -- why not?? How did you become the opposite of a sucker or were you naturally like this?
And of course, personal anecdotes are so helpful in illustrating your point.
Thanks in advance for your input!