Being an xNFP for me is hard. Maybe it would be better, but I think I have the worst of all the traits. I am highly emotional, and change my mind with the wind. I also have self esteem issues and don't really like to do things for myself, I'd prefer doing stuff for others. I am also a pretty flakey person. I hate being tied down to a schedule and a lot of times I agree to do things that I don't really want to do, and rather than just doing them anyways I will avoid people and just not show up. Bad huh? I don't really let people in, and I am impossible to befriend, unless I REALLY like you, which isn't likely. I don't really trust people unless they prove themselves to me, which is extremely hard to do because I don't seem to give people much of a chance. I think I am conditioned to be this way though because I used to be over trusting and let people walk all over me a bit. Because I have no logical decision making center in my brain (no really, I think 100% with my emotions), I cannot keep a job, and because I change my mind so much and lose interest in things so often, I can't decide what I want to be "when I grow up". Therefore, my life kind of sucks. Or rather, I suck at life. I don't know how I am supposed to overcome these issues if they are just a part of who I am. Was I born to be a loser? I am only so incredibly lucky to have a nice husband who supports me in whatever venture I may decide to do, no matter how often I change my mind. He is my rock and my stability in life.