I have noticed this particular behavior within myself. I won't contact people for 3-6 months at a time but they are always on my mind. I just always have something going on that contacting them slips my mind. Is my Fe just very screwed up?
i do that, my ESTP friend does it too (though i am not sure they are always on her mind though !) an ENFJ friend I used to have doesnt do that.
Can't say I do this...I am steady-eddie with my nearest and dearest. Every once in a blue moon I will need to "re-charge the batteries", but I inform everyone that I am taking a sebatical (usually just a few days) so they know that I haven't forgotten about them. Of course, I think I have way fewer friends than a typical ENFJ, so that probably helps...and even at that I still do get overwhelmed at times, hence the need to re-charge the old batteries
"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. " - Dr. Seuss
I can't spell...get over it