How closed up are you? Sure you have tons of friends because your charming and charismatic, but how many FRIENDS do you have? You know, the ones that are like family to you and you would stand by forever.
I admit that I have tons of normal friendships and I only have one or two truly deep, incredible friendships. I thought I was pretty bad about letting people see the real me but the ENFJs Ive met have been way worse.
The one Im closest to seems like an open book, but its a trick. He has tons of opinions which fools people into thinking he is talking about himself, when in actuality he never opens up about personal things.
So what about you other ENFJs?