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    Quote Originally Posted by PeaceRobin View Post
    Should I just go for it now and move while I'm semi-young or should I not set myself up for constant unwavering pattern of looking for greener grass?
    Yes

    Do it.

    This isn't a problem of 'grass is greener', its an issue of you being young and wanting to discover yourself and the world. Nothing wrong with that. In fact, its something you owe it to yourself to do.

    "Grass is greener" is a problem only if you are constantly changing partners, jobs, homes, and zip codes. And also if you have passed a certain age where "youth" doesn't cut it as your excuse for instability. But, it doesn't sound like that's what youve been doing.

    It sounds like youve travelled a lot already and gone outside your standard context. The fact that you want more and even said that you *need* travel are big indications to me that you should make the plunge.

    Seriously, don't wait and regret it. If you do it and realize big city living or whatnot is not for you, its not a waste or a regret because its something you must do in order to find out.

    Hop, hop, hop - you have to make your own life and figure out whats best for you. So make the move!
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    just take a vacation or go on a cruise when you need to get away.

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    i dunno

    lately i been going to the grass every time i think its greener, even having both feet in both grass

    what I found in 2009 is that the grass on both sides will eventually be of similiar satisfaction cus you're just going to trample the grass on both sides to a point where it might turn brown. unless u water both sides too...(which you should, especially cus by that point they are going to know you are a grass trampler) then u just gotta devote yourself full time to being a grass trampler and a grass water'er. and then its hard to do anything else...

    (OH CRAP MY BAD I WAS RAMBLING AND NOT EVEN TALKING ABOUT YOUR SITUATION...)

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    Quote Originally Posted by nomadic View Post
    i dunno

    lately i been going to the grass every time i think its greener, even having both feet in both grass

    what I found in 2009 is that the grass on both sides will eventually be of similiar satisfaction cus you're just going to trample the grass on both sides to a point where it might turn brown. unless u water both sides too...(which you should, especially cus by that point they are going to know you are a grass trampler) then u just gotta devote yourself full time to being a grass trampler and a grass water'er. and then its hard to do anything else...

    (OH CRAP MY BAD I WAS RAMBLING AND NOT EVEN TALKING ABOUT YOUR SITUATION...)
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    the grass is only greener on the other side because the other side's grass is plastic.
    She talks pretty but says mean things

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    Get out and experience new things. Otherwise you will regret it, most likely.

    And you don't want to regret things do you?

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    That the grass is always greener on the other side
    The neighbour's got a new car that you wanna drive
    And when time is running out you wanna stay alive
    We all live under the same sky
    We all will live
    We all will die
    There is no wrong
    There is no right
    The circle only has one side
    I'm a INFP - The sociopath

    I think I'm either a 4w5, 4w3, 6w5 or 9w1. Most possibly 4w5.

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    Yep. I'm always waiting for the grass to grow, especially the greener type.
    I'm a INFP - The sociopath

    I think I'm either a 4w5, 4w3, 6w5 or 9w1. Most possibly 4w5.

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