To be honest with everybody I think that ENFJs are afraid of me.
Maybe it isn't true but since they said it directly to me I will presume this is the case. Especially since somehow it makes sense.
Anyway if you are so much into "defeating" them here is probably the bast way how to do it.
As long things are lighthearted and flirty they have .... I guess you can call it "the advantage".
For example poker face is something that is my natural trait. So I can tell you that by using a poker face you can suck Fe out of the air and corner them by doing so. Also don't be openly agressive since by doing this you are giving them the reason to leash out on you. Which can serve as a replacement for Fe atmosphere. Look determined and decisive. (neuroticism at minimum)
If they ask you something give clear, direct and logical answers. Say no or very little personal information in conversations. Also don't start them as so you enter the room.
This way you will probably overpower them. Now the only question is will that scare them or intrigue them. (maybe even both)
Just to be clear I don't go around trying to scare Fe-doms it is just that things often turn out that way.
I would say more than charming because of what they say ENFJs have a very strong presence. Fe is almost physically palpable. And it naturally responds to cues in the environment that other people may seem to ignore. I think for that reason alone EXFJs are formidable in their social scenes. I could imagine that a battle between EXFJs and EXTPs would be spectacular and ongoing.
“If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you.” ― Oscar Wilde
For example poker face is something that is my natural trait.
I don't think it's natural for me, but I think I'm good at this too. Just more of a Fi thing than an INTJ like. Further, the ENFJ I know can also lose her charm by not being discriminate enough with her friends. I'll lose a little respect if you look like you're enjoying everyone's company.
yeah... my sis and I have the type of dynamics that you generally see on television... we can fight impressively, but we generally decide to turn our energy on the rest of society... she's still my favorite partner in crime and I still have been known to corner people and threaten them when they're mean to her... even though both of us have now passed the quarter century mark
We've tag teamed front desk people to comp our dinner and room at a hotel before even
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