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    Lay the coin on my tongue SilkRoad's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by SilkRoad View Post
    I can only think of one male friend who is definitely an INFP. I haven't asked him directly, but I am pretty sure he would say he has a good relationship with his mother. His ESFJ wife, however, is convinced that he has mother issues...hmmmm. She is rather neurotic/paranoid herself, though...

    Actually, I'm not sure if it's "mother issues" specifically, but I think he may have come from a bit of a dysfunctional background.
    Actually, never mind, he's an INTP, not an INFP (but his wife is definitely ESFJ!)
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    intp with an esfj?

    that's like the worst combination ever.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adoamros View Post
    intp with an esfj?

    that's like the worst combination ever.
    Hehe, I honestly didn't mean to derail the thread a couple of years ago I would have said it was the worst combo ever...they have had a seriously rocky marriage. On the other hand, unlike some people I know with rocky marriages, they've stuck it out. I spent a long weekend with them recently and it was nice...but some things disturb me...I mean, could she (the ESFJ) just NOT nag him for even five minutes?! I think he just tunes her out an awful lot of the time. They did say that when they discovered MBTI a few years ago it helped them understand a lot of their conflicts better!
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    ESFJs can't not nag.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adoamros View Post
    ESFJs can't not nag.
    For even a few minutes? And she takes everything soooo personally...if he lets a pot clatter in the kitchen, she thinks he did it on purpose to annoy her!
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    Quote Originally Posted by SilkRoad View Post
    For even a few minutes? And she takes everything soooo personally...if he lets a pot clatter in the kitchen, she thinks he did it on purpose to annoy her!
    my mom does the same thing. Everything that goes wrong are plans by others in spite of her. She can be somewhat of a martyr as well. Annoyingly, this is something I've found in every esfj I've come across. Sorry if you're an esfj and you don't agree. I would think INTPs anyone who isn't SFJ find these traits particularly annoying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SpankyMcFly View Post
    I detect self deprecating humor . Good stuff, it's my favorite flavor as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Adoamros View Post
    ESFJs can't not nag.
    Hense why they are one of the most common type. For adaptive and survival reasons nagging tends work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adoamros View Post
    intp with an esfj?

    that's like the worst combination ever.
    Lots of people end up with their shadow....

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    I have an ISFJ mom and she is (mostly) great. Like any parent, she has her annoyances. She's generally encouraging to me though. Sometimes she criticizes me when I'm in a idealist gone disheartened period. People don't know how to handle INFPs in that situation. I think their frustration with us comes more from the fact that they cannot fix it. People have a hard time just giving emotional support. I feel like the kind of support an INFP gives is rarely given in return from other types.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Adoamros View Post
    ESFJs can't not nag.
    Truth!

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