[MBTI General] What kind of people do you attract romantically?

[TopherRed]

I tend to attract INTJs like no tomorrow. I have a thick skin for an ENFJ and I think they find it endearing that I can stand to talk to them for very long (I wouldn't say I'd ever want to get into a long term relationship with one though...Te is kinda abusive to my way of thinking). I rarely meet INTPs, and I'm not sure if I've ever met the female version irl. Most INFPs I meet are 4s, and they tend to stress me out a bit. Occasionally an INFJ...cute, but after the initial contact, sometimes we pick at each other. *shrug*

 

[DiscoBiscuit]

I hopefully attract pretty girls, who are good trustworthy people.

 

[Requeim]

none, it seems :O

 

[Domino]

The homeless.

Why? Do you smell like fast food coupons and Thunderbird?

 

[Oberon]

Pink attracts two kinds: The utterly perfect and the complete lunatics. Sometimes the groups overlap.

 

[Domino]

Pink attracts two kinds: The utterly perfect and the complete lunatics. Sometimes the groups overlap.

There's no sometimes.

Without fail, it's some utterly perfect pirate/ringmaster/anti-hero trying to get a freak fest going with his bull whip inside my demure but colorful high-wire tights. The clowns are always amused. The midgets? Not so much.

My make or break decision inevitably centers around just how truly bad he is (I have a chart with easy to read notations) or if I can love him back without going straight to heck. Witty banter only delays the "You're my woman! Come take a tour of Hades!" moment.

NTPs create moral dilemmas that you have to work out quickly before he gets his hands on your frilly tutu and gleefully drags you off the circus mast kicking and flailing.

 

[runvardh]

The abused, the nerdy, and the geeky...

Also seems that the bigger they are the harder they fall.

 

[Domino]

You like to knock over giant women?

 

[Thalassa]

In reciprocal longer-term relationships I'd have to say xSFP and IxFJ.

But when I was younger the sleazy, man-ho type used to really like me, and I'd either use them for sex or kick them in the shins and run. Also, creepy, pretentious, successful older men used to really seem to be drawn to me.

I'm quite sure I've also had at least one ISTP, a couple of xNTPs and ....maybe?? xNFPs be attracted to me.

So basically, I attract people. I would be frightened if I attracted, say, cows or chickens.

 

[WoodsWoman]

Ltr. ENTJ

Attraction: INTJ, ENTP, INxP, and one I'm trying to figure out... I think he's ENTP or ESTP... more research required. ---Oh, and being somewhat oblivious there might be others.

 

[Biaxident]

I need to be cloned...

 

[Waffle]

For my personality: NFs
For my looks: SF and NT

However, that doesn't include my current beau. However, all of my boyfriends had underlying emotional or psychological issues and odd home lives.

 

[Domino]

Cloning? So you can do it with yourself, Biax?

 

[Biaxident]

Cloning? So you can do it with yourself, Biax?

Of course. I'm dead sexay...


Or to make it with a variety of hot wimmens...So no one feels left out.

 

[DiscoBiscuit]

Of course. I'm dead sexay...


Or to make it with a variety of hot wimmens...So no one feels left out.

Double the pleasure, double the fun...

 

[Lauren Ashley]

F males, ENxP males and females, ENTx lesbians/bisexuals.

 

[Biaxident]

Double the pleasure, double the fun...

Who said stop at two?
Couple 'o dozen should do it.

 

[CzeCze]

When I was in my teens I attracted outcasts, nerds, geeks, people who were on the fringes or felt they were on the fringes. Which I guess made sense because I was considered both a freak AND a geek AND a future lesbian (I know, a feat, I'm a woman of many talents what can I say)

As an adult? Usually introverts. INFX women is a theme but then I'm also attracted so it's hard to say "which came first". I seem to attract more extraversion in males then in females, but then, it probably takes more extraversion in a male for me to to notice. LOL.

 

[BlueinGreen]

When I was in high school (read: paler and skinnier) it was often the goth girls, which I found no less than bizarre.

Now I seem to attract the nurturing/mothering types, probably because I look like I'm 21 going on 16. I mean it's not the worst thing, but still...

 

[DiscoBiscuit]

Personally, I don't think I attract anyone. But, if we get along thats cool.