The Outsider
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- Joined
- Feb 3, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- intp
- Enneagram
- 5w4
- Instinctual Variant
- sx
I really don't know.
I attract:
1. Married men
2. Men with significant others
3. Men who should not consider themselves available
WTF?!?
Well yeah, but then you had to ruin it by explaining it.(continuing the boat ref... see what I did there?).
Also a smattering of odd, lonely, socially uncomfortable men who just need attention and because I treat them neutrally, they take it as encouragement.
Where are these INF-INT meetings taking place?
Where are these INF-INT meetings taking place?
I attract almost exclusively first borns/only children. Often ENTJ/ESTJ ish types, with a few INFPs thrown in for good measure (although they rarely express their feelings). They are often fairly accomplished in terms of skills and most have a drive towards education, or else go the opposite route and are successful at what they do, but without certification and are entrepreneurs. Also a smattering of odd, lonely, socially uncomfortable men who just need attention and because I treat them neutrally, they take it as encouragement. Often the people who are attracted to me aren't particularly close with their own family (although I am very much so with mine) and I think appreciate me drawing them out when they are not in the habit of disclosing much emotional stuff. This is a problem though because they are not often in the habit of being vulnerable and that usually means there are insecurities there that create other problems. A lot of the time those insecurities manifest themselves in an apprearance of confidence, which often isn't true confidence.
The kind I end up not being attracted to :/