I tend to attract the youngest of a family. I love the youngest, and for some reason, the men I've had relationships with and whom I loved have been been the youngest of two. I'm a romantic and so my heart and intuition lead the way. I've had two long-term relationships with ISTJs and, though they had their good, kind qualities, they were both domineering (to an extent), control-oriented people. In the past, I've attracted men who feel I need to be taken care of (as in parent-child) instead of those I prefer, which are men who treat me as an equal in no need of saving. I think it's because I don't appear to live in the here and now and they think I need a safety net. Because I'm independently-minded and very capable of making up my own mind, I felt hemmed in by them. I'm in love now with a NF or NT, and I much prefer the compatibility of minds in an NF or NT (an intense physical attraction goes without saying). I also look younger than my age (so I've been told), and I've attracted a few men much younger men. The two men I've fallen deeply in love with were both Ns, and we seem to read each other's minds. I love open-ended, non-judgmental discussions---then, when one has a strong opinion, it's not dismissed or the other person doesn't feel threatened by it: a respect for the other's point of view. Love has to be there, though.