I don't hate ENFJs, but the one I know is really persistent in trying to get me to stay after school for a Christian club. After staying once I decided, no it's okay, I would rather not stay in school longer than I have to. I eventually told him how I felt and his response was to try to guilt me into staying. Cause thats what Jesus would do.
This went on for weeks.
One day he caught me at a very bad time, and me not feeling like dealing with him at that particular moment answered with an emotionally charged "No. Why? Because I don't want to spend extra time in a place I hate to do something I do every Sunday!" Why did I give such a sharp tongued answer? Because he didn't listen to me when I said I didn't wanna stay earlier , and after that point realizing that I couldn't rationally talk to the guy, coupled on with him being really annoying, I had to let him have it, or else he would've been bugging me forever
Other than that he's a really nice guy, I like him and all, he's just to pushy for my taste.