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    Bing cherries. The cherriest.
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    Well I could spin everyone of those points into something else.. So the issue might be a warped perception and an expectation of how others ought to behave.

    You brought it up yourself..

    Elfboy.. who is struggling here.. The ENFJ you are upset with, or you? read my Sig..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    I don't like any of the ENFJs I know (in fact, I just punched one in the face recently for many of the reasons listed below
    ALL HAIL to the badass that goes by the name of Elfboy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Juice View Post
    ALL HAIL to the badass that goes by the name of Elfboy.
    I cannot perform ALL HAIL at the moment...I'm cowering behind my keyboard ...I'm scared that somebody will invade my personal space and punch me in the face...or, even worse - throw cherries at me
    We could learn a lot from crayons. Some are sharp, some are pretty and some are dull; some have weird names and all are different colours, but they all have to live in the same box.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    disclaimer: the following applies to the ENFJs I've met. given 1) I don't like any of the ENFJs I know (in fact, I just punched on in the face recently for many of the reasons listened below)
    and 2) I don't know a ton of ENFJs, this posts is going to be very biased. if I am terribly off in my generalizations, feel free to let me know.
    anyway, things I hate about enfjs are:
    1) getting really emotional about everything
    2) expecting you to feel a certain way
    3) not giving person space
    4) coming to conclusions before you're finished talking
    5) being terrible with logic
    6) being extremely judgmental I have met ENFPs who are quite judgmental.... it's quite relative
    7) having all these expectations on how you "should" be or feel
    8) assuming you're a selfish prick if you care about your own benefit at all

    9) taking EVERYTHING personally
    10) thinking extremely collectivistically and being offended if you don't

    11) trying to malipulate you with flattery
    12) not liking you unless you are another FJ

    13) not liking you if you are enneagram 5 or 8 (and usually not 7 either)

    14) constantly focused on other people
    15) if you disagree with them, they take it as an insult or an offense unless you deliberately say it isn't, and even then they usually do
    16) invading your personal space

    17) oh I almost forgot. the guilt trip
    yeah sounds like a very small group unless they are young and/or immature.
    The bold doesn't really apply to me but they could definitely apply to your peeps.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ethelred the Unready View Post
    I cannot perform ALL HAIL at the moment...I'm cowering behind my keyboard ...I'm scared that somebody will invade my personal space and punch me in the face...or, even worse - throw cherries at me
    Ha ha...!!!!^^^^^^


    I don't know if anybody noticed , but 4 of Elfboy's points are blatant redundancies and a few more are kind of repeated more than once as well.
    SO this really means That Elfboy has only about 10 points, not 17.. But he is still 100% wrong.. Ahhh math.. How I love you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arclight View Post
    Ha ha...!!!!^^^^^^


    I don't know if anybody noticed , but 4 of Elfboy's points are blatant redundancies and a few more are kind of repeated more than once as well.
    SO this really means That Elfboy has only about 10 points, not 17.. But he is still 100% wrong.. Ahhh math.. How I love you
    It's an incredibly emotion filled post but we don't really know if has or has not met people like that. Although all the emotional intensity made it seem like a big exaggeration based on butthurtness.

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    It's called venting. Don't take it too personally.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pitseleh View Post
    It's an incredibly emotion filled post but we don't really know if has or has not met people like that. Although all the emotional intensity made it seem like a big exaggeration based on butthurtness.
    Yes I know he is upset.. He is a smart Kid.. so maybe he will realize that by making this post, and going off like he did.. That he is doing about 10 of those "non" redundant points himself. On top of that he punches people who don't agree with him..
    He is obviously emotionally distressed .

    And in his case.. My Sig might not be a good mantra for him.. because it is not other people's behavior that is really causing him to struggle internally.. but rather his own..

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    Just coz it's worded in an emotional way doesn't mean it should stop you from looking past that and objectively checking if what he says applies to you as a person. I wouldn't have worded it the way he did, but 2/3's of that list are things that indeed can be found in the NFJ breed, though clearly it's not limited to that breed only.
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