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    Senior Member The Third Rider's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlueFlame View Post
    Yes, I know exactly how to destroy from the inside out, and you're right...I think that's a skill most ENFJs have. I also think that's one of the reasons I tend to try to avoid confrontation - that's something I *hate* about myself. I don't want to lose it and do damage that can't be undone...
    But, in all reality, UnKindLoving is right. Some serious boundaries usually have to be crossed to get to that point.
    I agree, I know can say that I know where it "hurts" or where the wounds and vulnerabilities, BUT I do not like to go there. If these things were told to me is because I am of trust and I will keep them close to me guard them. i don't like conflict and I will completely avoid if at all possible but if you cross a certain boundary then you are definitely asking for it so its not like I just like to bring up "certain" subjects just to make people feel miserable.
    ENFJ 3W4

    If you read this I am sorry to say that you just lost 5 seconds of your life that you wont be getting back.*

    *Actual time may vary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by neptunesnet View Post
    And you want to know what I would have done?

    ENFJ males just love when you're fiesty.
    I don't!!

    Painfully Bipolar

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    Then I guess we'll all just have to ignore you and pretend you're not there for a YEAR. INFPs desire attention, even if it's few and far in between. The need builds up.
    Love is the point.

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    I've gotten along very well with all the female ENFJs I've known.

    Males, on the other hand, I've only ever been able to befriend one. Sorry to be so blunt about this but I can't stand most of them.

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    Yeah, most of them irritate me too. They were self-protection Ennea 2w1s. Drove me nukking futz.
    Love is the point.

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    I'm fairly new to the forum and it sems like all I'm doing is going round and resurrecting old threads I'm thinking of changing my name to Ethelred the Resurrector.

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    They also can do odd things like insist that there are deep meanings in the lyrics to Metallica songs...They also sometimes do horrible and odd things like listen to the same song or watch the same movie over and over and over
    This made me laugh out loud...thanks for making my day, whatever ...but, you know, there are deep meanings in the lyrics to Metallica songs

    As for this bit: 'listen to the same song or watch the same movie over and over and over' - guilty as charged

    Now I'm ready for that firing squad...no, no, I don't need a blindfold...I'll go down with my colours flying...

    And maybe the bullets will bounce away from my 'ENFJ's charm'?
    We could learn a lot from crayons. Some are sharp, some are pretty and some are dull; some have weird names and all are different colours, but they all have to live in the same box.

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    Well, my ENFJ friend has a cat that just had kittens. So I kind of hate her.

    I want kittens.
    "There's no need to be embarrassed about it, Mr. Spock. It happens to the birds and the bees!"

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    disclaimer: the following applies to the ENFJs I've met. given 1) I don't like any of the ENFJs I know (in fact, I just punched on in the face recently for many of the reasons listened below)
    and 2) I don't know a ton of ENFJs, this posts is going to be very biased. if I am terribly off in my generalizations, feel free to let me know.
    anyway, things I hate about enfjs are:
    1) getting really emotional about everything
    2) expecting you to feel a certain way
    3) not giving person space
    4) coming to conclusions before you're finished talking
    5) being terrible with logic
    6) being extremely judgmental
    7) having all these expectations on how you "should" be or feel
    8) assuming you're a selfish prick if you care about your own benefit at all
    9) taking EVERYTHING personally
    10) thinking extremely collectivistically and being offended if you don't
    11) trying to malipulate you with flattery
    12) not liking you unless you are another FJ
    13) not liking you if you are enneagram 5 or 8 (and usually not 7 either)
    14) constantly focused on other people
    15) if you disagree with them, they take it as an insult or an offense unless you deliberately say it isn't, and even then they usually do
    16) invading your personal space
    17) oh I almost forgot. the guilt trip

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    Well, Elfboy, sometimes people need punching. Especially the irritating ones.
    eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
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    EII-Fi subtype, Ethical/Empath, Delta/Beta
    RLUEI, Choleric/Melancholic
    Inquistive/Limbic
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    Researcher: VDI-P
    Dramatic>Sensitive>Serious

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    17) taste like cherries.

    It's true, they do.

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