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    i know a ENFJ who is a complete jerk.

    He is -
    arrogant
    narcissistic
    over ambitious
    self centered
    manipulative
    over analytical
    image conscious
    ass-holic
    insensitive
    controlling
    etc...

    and the worst thing about him is that everytime he takes a personality test he gets ENTJ.

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    ...I'd assume he was an ENTJ then <_<
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    Quote Originally Posted by ravana View Post
    i know a ENFJ who is a complete jerk.

    He is -
    arrogant
    narcissistic
    over ambitious
    self centered
    manipulative
    over analytical
    image conscious
    ass-holic
    insensitive
    controlling
    etc...

    and the worst thing about him is that everytime he takes a personality test he gets ENTJ.

    haha! Wow! He sounds charming.

    Both ENFJs and ENTJs can be all of these things listed (unfortunately ). I'd be inclined to believe he's an ENTJ according to the traits that I highlighted. But then again, an ENFJ on a rampage can be quite intolerable.

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    Why can't all ENFJs be as sane as PinkPiranha?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiny Army View Post
    Why can't all ENFJs be as sane as PinkPiranha?
    You will marry me and be my woman now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiny Army View Post
    Why can't all ENFJs be as sane as PinkPiranha?
    They are.

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    I can provide serious evidence that this is not the case.

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    I can second that. there are wonderful and amazing ENFJs like pink pirhanna, but whoa, doggy if you land yourself a crazy one you are in for a wild and crazy Fe ride.

    "Why doesn't anybody love meeeeeeee?"

    I should probably mention that landing a crazy *anything* will be a headache, the type just determines what particular flavor of crazy you'll be getting. This is just my favorite flavor of ENFJ crazy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Schizm View Post
    I have a problem with ENFJ's neglect of their own needs. It is OK to want something. My question to you is, "what do you want?". Because I have observed ENFJ's give so much more than they are given.
    I can relate to this one. It concerns me as well. I have a granny with that type. Being in her house makes me feel so uncomfortable. She still has these exceptional high standard as to catering for her guests. Only that now with her age close to 90 she is unable to provide. It bothers me because I can see her feeling frustrated because of this. The sad thing is that I don't want her to provide for me. Still she just can't let go.
    Thoughts die the moment they are embodied by words. (Arthur Schopenhauer)

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    Hate an ENFJ? Naw. Get seriously pissed off? Yeah.

    I say true things. That's what I do. Or, at least, when I speak, I expect what I say to be judged true or false. (And since it's Te, if it's true, then it's usually meant to be followed.) But in the company of ENFJ anything I say is assessed primarily for signs of immediate feeling, and as such my noise is just another datum, equal to any other, in an ongoing program of moment-to-moment human management. The terms of that management program are determined by the ENFJ, under which it is so very charming when other people try out directive language, almost as if they could escape the love.

    ENFJs are all as much into domination as each other. The programs are fixed. It's what they do. I assume some of them can go off the rails and manage people far more than they should, but to cease management, to stop guiding people? That'd amount to turning off the dominant function, wouldn't it?

    To have them hear another voice? You still have to be plugged into the Fe loop before you can be heard. Even if they're not nuts.




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