That was an exceptionally good post Mempy! In fact when it comes to talk of 'unhealthy ENFJs' it's really the first time I've actually seen great insight. This thread is not about defending ourselves but instead really listening. I know I am trying! I disagree with a few of your conclusions (mostly the fraud/fakeness) and if you would like to know how to relate to your ENFJ friend, please PM me anytime. I would do my best to tell the truth. I've been through so much of how you described her .
This part was excellent. Identifying this as a problem (which I always knew it was) is completely different then finding a solution. I'm 30 years old and it still rears it's ugly head despite my constant efforts to fight. I don't know that other ENFJs (the healthier ones) have these problems, but I certainly relate.Originally Posted by Mempy
Anyway, thanks again for your post. Constructive criticism as well insight is always welcome.