how many of you -especially NFs- feel that you have fulfilled your parents' expectations?
...or perhaps to the contrary, do many of you feel that you often made them sort of 'dissapointed' in you, & what you chose to do/want in life?
this could mean many things, such as:
- you took the uni Major/Degree that your parents want, with the results that your parents also want
- later on, you worked on a job/field that your parents want, with the results that your parents also want
- or, you're married, have kids, according to parents' expectations/wishes
do you rather feel that,
the more 'mature' we are, the more we grow into an Adult,
the reality seems to be we dissapoint our parents much more, than we fulfill/satisfy their expectations/wishes ?
and do you think, it's especially hard for NFs type,
especially if our parents are like, NTs, and much especially, if they're an SJs ?..
what do you guys think on this issue?