ENFPs are flaky. That's my biggest complaint. But from the forums, I understand why they are flaky, and I totally love them anyway.
NFPs are like cats. You can't expect their affection. They don't come when called. They aren't going to follow your orders. But if they love you...they will come 'round every once and awhile and purr by your leg...even jump up on top of your shoulders if you're sitting and do the same...it's moments like that, that make me absoleutely love NFPs. Unconditionally. You guys rock!
Wow, WTF, I'm supposed to be ENFP (I'm kind of an in-between personality), but I'm 100% opposite, I'm like a dog, always down for a little touchy-feely (it's my favorite love language ), in fact, I loooooooove dogs because they are also touchy-feely, you just pet them and they like it (sort of like me, woof wooooof I need attention and affection, too! hehehe :P)
That said, here are some things about immature ENFP's I know IRL that annoys me:
- Unable to tell things like they REALLY are (cannot separate facts from their feelings) - Twists facts and is UNAWARE of it.
- Often delusional
- Unable to comprehend/intolerant of impersonal reasoning
- Obnoxiously loud
- Tendency to believe their/their friends' opinion = everyone else's opinion
- Somewhat bipolar
- Projects their own emotions on others
Take everything with a grain of salt.
The above qualities apply to ALL unhealthy EFs, period, and some none EFs, too.
'Cause you can't handle me...
"A lie is a lie even if everyone believes it. The truth is the truth even if nobody believes it." - David Stevens
"That that is, is. That that is not, is not. Is that it? It is."
I agree with most people that have already posted on here saying ENFP's are flaky, but that's about all. The only other thing is, is that they can be annoying at times, but I'm an introvert so that might just be me. Other than that ENFP's are generally nice people, listen more than others and are really good friends. Nice to be around them, but for me, only in small doses
Just realized this post is 5 years old... lol. Have a nice day
Well, this I guess explains why my supposed friends in middle school thought I was annoying cause I probably was :/ I've chilled down since then (having people tell you they were only your friend cause they felt sorry for you stings and at a young age kinda leaves a lasting effect). I'm probably still annoying as an adult though. I should ask people...
“We keep moving forward, opening new doors, and doing new things, because we’re curious and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths.” -Walt Disney
The only annoying thing about you guys is that when you say you'll get back to it you never do. You have so much on your plate that you can feel distant to me while you think you're 100 % in.
I would agree with that. It's like you have to tell them - LOOK AT ME WHEN I'M TALKING TO YOU!!! I've said that more than once to my two ENFP friends. I think sometimes, you have to bust up that bubble of easily distracted but that's not even a guarantee that they'll listen. Hear you, maybe. Returning calls is a total waste of time - text them or you could never hear from them until June, four years from now. I love my ENFP's but damn, they can be a pain in the ass.
I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.