Oh, you guys know I do love to poke holes....Here are some external observation of how ENFPs can be annoying from an Fe observation point. Best to understand honestly how we can sometimes be seen, in order to decide if that is a characteristic we choose to modify. But yup, ouch.
"I find that ENFP's are confrontational and can be incredibly critical of others .. if someone dares to challenge their views in a constructive manner, they actually seem closed minded. Now just because i think this doesn't mean that the individual has not gone away and accessed this information and took it on board. You rarely get to see that though.
I do believe that some are projecting and making assumptions .. Noone seems to ask what you mean by that, just jump to whichever conclusion relates to their experience. Nothing is set in stone though.
Maybe that is the difference between literally and figuratively speaking.
The nastiness .. What a vicious tongue you lot can have ..
The superiority complex .. Where is the modesty? "