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    Default How to hold an NF forever ?

    If you dont know what love is

    If you get frequently told "you only show me your love when doing that special activity xyz"

    When you constantly feel like you have to be on the watchout for making no mistakes

    When you have not a single clue why she wants you after 4 years

    When you dont even know on her birthday if its was 25 or 24 years

    When you are labeled to be someone without humor and if you make a joke you are labeled malign

    When you sometimes feel like you would have to end your own whole life just to make things right for her

    When you constantly say things the wrong way tho you didnt mean no harm at all

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    When she is the most important thing you ever achieved in your life and you'ld rather die alone and let vermin feast on your rugged body than to ever loose that person again that makes you happy by just ringing your doorbell ?
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    To keep an NF all you need to do is be perfect to their ever changing ideas of perfection!

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    damn good one, thx
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    ...you realize that she dates you for a reason. That she loves you for a reason. That you are entitled to make mistakes and she's entitled to bitch about them occasionally, and vice versa. And you let her know how you feel and ask her to do the same.
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    Ya but if she wouldnt speak spanish and I wouldnt speak canadian, it would prolly work better
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    You underestimate the power of bodylanguage
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    Somehow, for whatever reason, you are still together after 4 years. You have history in your favor. Do you have any idea what her (and your) love languages are? Make it a topic of conversation. ---Print what you posted and share it with her - though NF is still a broad category so... this INFP would be touched that her partner trusted her to help sort through some of this.

    Just my 2c worth.

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    Stop inhaling my fairy dust. *dainty glove slap to your chest* You big beastly NT man!

    Ok. You can inhale some more of it. I know how much you love fairy dust. Just don't let it spoil your dinner this time!
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    I'll bet your NF is able to see the fact that you care, despite your lack of faith in the way you show it. You'd be surprised how well some NFs are able to accept affection and translate it into their own language.

    Do you know what means a lot to her? Even if you find it boring, can you make an effort in that direction a couple time a week? That's doable, and I bet the effort won't go unnoticed. If it does, point it out, and the fact that you're even trying will go a long, long way.
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    Try food and grooming, works just fine.
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