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[INFJ] INFJ Female Signals

human101

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What does it mean when an INFJ female always randomnly compliments me whenever we have a conversation and says things like I have the perfect face lol and that there's something cool about me which she can't put her finger on, then other days she'll completely ignore me if I walk past her directly and say hi in college, or sometime she'll look really shy and uncomfortable around me when we're in the same room with other people but look at me every now and again with an embarrassed smile. I've known for her a while and I'm and INTP male.
 

TopherRed

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She likes you. She has thoughts about you. She's not sure what to do with you. She wants to go out with you...but she's not certain if you're interested.

I would just ask her out to eat. That'll probably scare her and she may turn you down. Then eventually, because she knows for sure there's an interest from your end, she'll ask you. She is the J in the relationship afterall.

So, I have a question, do you like her?
 

human101

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I do like her but don't know how to show it the few friendships I have are casual, I have never really been close to anyone friends, family etc
 

Udog

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Ooohhh... INFJs tend to love people they can't quite figure out. Combine that with her flat out complimenting your looks, and that tells me that she's at least intrigued by you, if not flat out attracted to you.

(Also, INFJs do tend to love their xxTPs. :D)
 

TopherRed

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I do like her but don't know how to show it the few friendships I have are casual, I have never really been close to anyone friends, family etc

Human, let her run the emotional side for awhile. She may end up introducing you to what that means, especially if you're up front about not understanding how to do the whole "relationship thing".
 

Lauren Ashley

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Complimenting you?
Acting uncomfortable around you?
Stealing looks?

She's obviously interested in you. At the very least.
 

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it means come and get the pie on the window sill
its hot and waiting for you!
 

Fidelia

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She digs you. The being around you but ignoring you just comes from feeling unsure of what to do, so pretending she doesn't see you even though she wants to be near you.
 

runvardh

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Dooo eeeeet.

Wish I could notice those signals. I tend to be too far out of it to pick up anything.
 

WednesdayGirl

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She's digging on you, for sure. It sounds like the INFJ female is trying to "test" you. Let her ask you out...or at least make her work for it. She does need lots of caring and attention (like a rose), and some tending to. So...if you are open/ready for this...I say "go for it."

An INFJ wants a man who is sensitive and elusive. There are some enigmatic qualities about certain men...that we find completely irrisistable. We don't want what the 99% of the male species think/feel/do...we want that rare 1%. And we will wait to get that rarity.

Summary: You can eventually ask her out...if she doesn't you first. My thought is to wait it out...as INFJ's are quickly decisive about who they do/don't like. And...although she may switch up the vibes she sends out (I admittedly do)...underneath you will see that she treats you differently in respect to other males in the group/class.
 

JivinJeffJones

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She probably likes you.

Either that or she's embarrassed by your friendship for some reason and overcompensates (when nobody else is around) by complimenting you.

You need to get a tshirt made up with the words: Flirt harder, I'm an INTP.
 
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Ardea

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Why are you asking this question?

It's obvy she likes you! :)
 

TopherRed

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So how did it go, my Human friend? What's happened since then?
 

Siúil a Rúin

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Definitely sounds like a crush.
 

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:laugh:

You can't make me read OPs!
 

human101

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the random ignoring has turned into ignoring for the last couple of weeks
 

TopherRed

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Is she depressed or going through some particularly troubling personal issues?

Expanding on that: is there something else besides you occupying her attention atm? Like mid-terms, perhaps?
 
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