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    Question INFJ Female Signals

    What does it mean when an INFJ female always randomnly compliments me whenever we have a conversation and says things like I have the perfect face lol and that there's something cool about me which she can't put her finger on, then other days she'll completely ignore me if I walk past her directly and say hi in college, or sometime she'll look really shy and uncomfortable around me when we're in the same room with other people but look at me every now and again with an embarrassed smile. I've known for her a while and I'm and INTP male.

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    It means she hates you.

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    She likes you. She has thoughts about you. She's not sure what to do with you. She wants to go out with you...but she's not certain if you're interested.

    I would just ask her out to eat. That'll probably scare her and she may turn you down. Then eventually, because she knows for sure there's an interest from your end, she'll ask you. She is the J in the relationship afterall.

    So, I have a question, do you like her?
    Love is the point.

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    I do like her but don't know how to show it the few friendships I have are casual, I have never really been close to anyone friends, family etc

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    Ooohhh... INFJs tend to love people they can't quite figure out. Combine that with her flat out complimenting your looks, and that tells me that she's at least intrigued by you, if not flat out attracted to you.

    (Also, INFJs do tend to love their xxTPs. )

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    Quote Originally Posted by human101 View Post
    I do like her but don't know how to show it the few friendships I have are casual, I have never really been close to anyone friends, family etc
    Human, let her run the emotional side for awhile. She may end up introducing you to what that means, especially if you're up front about not understanding how to do the whole "relationship thing".
    Love is the point.

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    Complimenting you?
    Acting uncomfortable around you?
    Stealing looks?

    She's obviously interested in you. At the very least.

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    i concur. she's interested.

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    it means come and get the pie on the window sill
    its hot and waiting for you!
    I N V I C T U S

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    She digs you. The being around you but ignoring you just comes from feeling unsure of what to do, so pretending she doesn't see you even though she wants to be near you.

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