So, browsing around certain threads in this forum, I've seen the mention of "mistyped INFJs" or "fake INFJs" more than once. It seems like word on the streets is that lots of INFJs aren't -actually- INFJs, but possibly just were unable to objectively type themselves (do I have that right?). Or something.
My questions are, then:
1. What sort of characteristics do you look for in INFJs (in these forums, or in real life) that are pretty much -crucial- to being an INFJ? Are there any characteristics like this?
2. What sort of characteristics (or lack thereof) are generally, or possibly even absolutely, NOT INFJ characteristics - thus alerting you to a possible mistype?
I'm interested because I've seen the term around and I was curious as to why some of you thought this. I don't mean to start anything bad by asking this