People think I am very open, but as someone said on the first page, I'm only open with resolved issues, things I have already acted on. Things I'm still stuck with, I can't really talk about because I'm still working through the emotions surrounding them, and it's too vunerable a state to expose to someone who is only going to give me a long list of action points to improve the situation, when I'm not quite ready to.
I'm even only open to a certain degree online, the days where I'm really in need of someone to talk to, are the days I don't even post on here. I just keep it to myself, and become a lurker until I've dealt with it, or have resolved the emotions around it.
I'm open with my life, I will tell anyone who asks where am at with my life, but I am closed with my emotions, I can't even say I love you because it's a private feeling sometimes.