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    yeah that makes some sense...i don't know...i'm just being hypothetical anyway.
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    Quote Originally Posted by INTPness View Post
    Expand on the part in bold. That's the part that I often have a hard time understanding. It would seem to me (and I've been known to be wrong) that there's MUCH more too it than just "I don't like things to come too easy". Why exactly don't you like things to come easy? One would think that if the man of your dreams (or fantasies) actually fell into your lap, you would welcome it and want it to be as easy and friction-free as possible. What is it that makes a person turn away from a healthy, loving, mutually supportive, non-dramatic relationship? I wouldn't want to run away from that...I'd want to go towards it. Hope that it doesn't seem like I'm attacking you, just curious is all.
    Two things come to my mind:
    (1) I think for me, at least, I have had experiences with friendships and relationships where we seem to hit it off REALLY fast and then a few weeks later, it fizzles out. I realized that I thought I knew the person, but I was just blinded by what seemed like awesomeness. I've had enough of those experiences to kind of be like, "Hmm... let me calm down and just wait and see."

    (2) I feel like I have a lot of layers to my personality and I have this fear that if someone REALLY gets to know me intimately, they might not like me. I guess I'm trying to say that I don't like someone going "gaga" over me when they don't know me. It's almost a turn off because it's like, "How can you like me when you don't KNOW me? You only THINK you know me?" I just have my guard up, I guess you could say. But if you come at me slowly and show a little restraint, it drives me CRAZY and I am more likely to let my guard down. Also... I want to know that your like of me is based on something solid and substantial, like my ACTUAL personality, and not the way I look.

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    Quote Originally Posted by INTP View Post
    When you really want one, she doesent want you. When you dont want one, she wants you to go in the club with others and says you had some flirting going on when your leaving
    (2 seperate cases)

    discuss
    This thread is retarded; its premise, assumptions, intentions, everything. It's hard for me not to think the same of its author.

    EDIT: How is this getting so many responses?! My reaction to flirting has changed drastically over my lifetime... there is no ENFP interpretation protocol. No one can interpret the actions of your "ENFP"s (and who knows what type they are).

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunshinEnfp View Post
    Two things come to my mind:
    (1) I think for me, at least, I have had experiences with friendships and relationships where we seem to hit it off REALLY fast and then a few weeks later, it fizzles out. I realized that I thought I knew the person, but I was just blinded by what seemed like awesomeness. I've had enough of those experiences to kind of be like, "Hmm... let me calm down and just wait and see."

    (2) I feel like I have a lot of layers to my personality and I have this fear that if someone REALLY gets to know me intimately, they might not like me. I guess I'm trying to say that I don't like someone going "gaga" over me when they don't know me. It's almost a turn off because it's like, "How can you like me when you don't KNOW me? You only THINK you know me?" I just have my guard up, I guess you could say. But if you come at me slowly and show a little restraint, it drives me CRAZY and I am more likely to let my guard down. Also... I want to know that your like of me is based on something solid and substantial, like my ACTUAL personality, and not the way I look.
    right yeah...it's the authenticity of it...it's quite fine once we trust your reasons...i think that's the difference.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    right yeah...it's the authenticity of it...it's quite fine once we trust your reasons...i think that's the difference.
    but do you ask/look for the reasons or do you just assume that they are wrong and leave the case? i think thats the real difference
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    Hon, let's just Ne-dance a bit and see if we still like each other. I wanna see what you've got, and what way you respond, react, what's important to you, what your first impulses are likely to be to any given situation. The dance is there for a reason. Trust me, you wanna be Ne-d before you get Fi-d, you'll need the warm-up
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    Hon, let's just Ne-dance a bit and see if we still like each other. I wanna see what you've got, and what way you respond, react, what's important to you, what your first impulses are likely to be to any given situation. The dance is there for a reason. Trust me, you wanna be Ne-d before you get Fi-d, you'll need the warm-up
    Yeah, you really do wanna be Ne-d before you get Fi-d. I second this STRONGLY. Trust us.

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    ^True.
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    haha... enfp people!
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    Quote Originally Posted by INTP View Post
    When you really want one, she doesent want you. When you dont want one, she wants you to go in the club with others and says you had some flirting going on when your leaving
    (2 seperate cases)

    discuss
    You gotta learn how to chase! This isn't rocket science.

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